Why do you eat emotionally?

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Well I am back if you noticed that I havent been posting in a while.  I had an amazing two weeks in Java and Sumatra wandering around temples and playing with orangutans!  Then I went into hospital to have my left hip replaced and am now running around like a two year old - well nearly anyway!!

So time to get back to business and to weight problems......

Do you eat emotionally?  Do you polish off a bar of chocolate and not even realise that you have done it?  Do you eat a packet of biscuits and then feel guilty, shameful and your self worth dips?  If you do you are not alone.  There are many reasons why you do this but the good news is that they can be healed so you are not bothered about food!

1.  Hormones - you know that at a certain time of the month your eating can go out of control
2.  No money - believe it or not weight is linked to money and the less you have the more you may eat - this is to do with scarcity patterns
3.  You have starved in past lives and your body doesnt want that to happen in this one
4.  You have had trauma in your life and the eating blocks the pain of having to deal with it
5.  You may have very low self esteem and eat to feel better
6.  You could be "stuffing" emotions down rather than dealing with them
7.  Your body type may require more food
8.  and the list goes on ........................

Using EFT can release traumas, past lives, stuck emotions and most other things so this is your first port of call - but of course, you have to do it for it it work! I know of specific points that you can use for appetite suppression to you dont have to use the full routine............  My book, Unlock Your Maximum Weight Loss Potential, shows you a lot more techniques to get your eating under control - but it can be brought under control and you CAN lose your weight and be SLIM for life!

Is your underactive thyroid causing your weight problem?

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Do you know what your thyroid is?  It is a butterfly shaped gland situated in the front of your neck and forms part of your throat chakra.  It is usually associated with not being able to speak up for yourself or speak your truth - sound familiar?!

The thyroid basically controls most of your hormone functions including your metabolism.  As the estimate now for being underactive is 1 in 5 (especially women) it is not suprising that there is an obesity problem.  In the UK the tests are inadequate and can say you are normal when you are not (this has happened to me).  That is if the doctor evens picks it up because most always associate being overweight with overeating.  Then the medication doesnt help - it may help some but it wont help with weight loss.  So you continually put on weight and then cant lose it, despite dieting or starving - also the thyroid will fill you with excess water that you cant lose either.

You need to tune into your thyroid and see what is there.  What shape, colour, size, texture and if there are memories, trauma or past life information that needs clearing - then use the techniques in my book to release and replace with self love and confidence.  People who have been physically, mentally, emotionally or sexually abuse can have an underactive thyroid.  If you are looking at past lives it can be because you were hanged, or other injuries to the throat.

Homeopathy is brilliant for thyroid and so is spirulina.  You need to make sure that you are getting the correct vitamins and minerals. Again my book lists everything including what crystals to use to heal your thyroid and speed up your metabolism.

Why not buy my book and use it as your bible to help heal your body and your weight?

How does karma affect your success?

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So how does karma affect your success I hear you ask - and what utter nonense! So any of you, like me, who are doing well and then suddenly everything falls about our ears will understand that something else is affecting what we do!

When we come into a live we have a contract with our Soul to experience many situations and one of those is to clear past karma.  This could be our karma, ancestral, religious, spiritual, soul group, from the country we live in - and anything else we have agreed to - which reminds me to say that we usually agree to do too much (against the wishes of our guides and angels) so next time remember to chose wisely - I certainly am!

There are lots of explanations about karma but I believe it is ourselves paying back for things that we have done in the past that havent aligned with our soul purpose - like stealing, murder, witch hunting, wars, experimentation, treating people badly, slavery - the list is absolutely endless.  And yes we have done all of these things in these lives but we know that we are never going to do them again and we need to clear what is programmed into our DNA etc so we can clear bad luck, sabotage etc and start manifesting the life of our dreams.  This can set up patterns of not deserving and not being worthy and that is another reason we sabotage our success because deep down we belief we are not good enough and therefore cant be successful.

When I first started on my spiritual journey I was told in a past life session that I had been responsible for putting Jesus Christ on the cross - you can imagine how that made me feel and I sunk into a deep depression and blamed myself for the misfortunes of the world - and for then on everything went wrong and I lost lots of money. This past life regression was handled very badly and I should have been made to see that I had been chosen to do this as an important role for the growth of the planet and that it was a great honour - it took me a long time to turn this around believe me.

There should be no blame or judgement attached to any karma or past life - just the knowledge that this needs clearing from every cell in your body and replaced with love and healing.  To do this you can use techniques like EFT, ask for help with your angels or book a session with me!  You will find that your life will begin to change for the better and your health, relationships and money situations will improve! There is a lot more information about how to do this in my wonderful book Unlock your Maximum Potential - it is well worth the money and is available on Amazon now!

My new book, Unlock your Maximum Potential, is now available on Amazon!!

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Hi Everyone - I am delighted to announce, after five years of blood, sweat, tears and over 20 years of research that my new book ‘Unlock your Maximum Potential’ is now available in Amazon.  I have read so many self-help books but got frustrated because they usually covered one subject like gratitude, kindness or manifesting – so I decided to put a book together that contains everything you need to know to become a better version of yourself. Why not buy it now or give it as a Christmas present – you could improve yours or somebody else’s life 2019!

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How do past lives affect your weight?

If you have a weight problem and have trouble losing it or keeping it off, you may be affected by past lives.  What tripe I hear you say!  But it is true and I can vouch for it because it has affected me!  I was 12 lb when I was born and have been on a diet ever since doing at least 1 hours exercise a day and sometimes three.  People would always say to me, "If you did another hour that would work" or "You dont eat enough" or "You must eat too much"!  People who dont have a weight problem dont understand!  When I got out and drink water and have a starter for a main course I am surrounded by people eating three courses with alcohol (over 3,000 calories) so they assume I must eat this plus!  I have had people come up to me in the streets and tell me to eat more fruit and veg (I am a veggie!) or tell me to do more exercise!  Actually I think this is insulting as I wouldnt dream of going up to somebody and saying you are ugly!

So when I started down a spiritual path I started to look at past lives and I was amazed how they are affecting our lives now from health, weight, through to money and success.  So I started to look at the past lives that had caused me problems:

1. I had died many times from malnutrition
2. I had died many times from thirst
3. In Africa centuries ago if you were large it showed you were wealthy
4. I had had past lives in the South Pacific where the body structure is larger
5. I had had many poor lives of lack and this now equates to weight gain in this life (money and weight are connected)
6. I had been raped etc and the weight was for protection
7. I had had jobs where I had to be large (fat lady in a circus, sumo wrestler) so if I lost weight I would have lost my job
8. The weight in this life was punishment for me laughing at overweight people in different lives
9. The weight was punishment for me because of the negative things I had done in past lives

This is to name but just a few.  When I have clients with a weight problem one of the first areas I clear is past lives otherwise the weight will not come off as the subconscious will hold onto it for grim death!  Why not contact me on ann@annparker.co.uk to find out what past lives are causing your weight problems and remove them.

Do you really want to lose weight? I bet you dont!!

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I was 12lb when I was born and I then suffered with being overweight most of my life.  When I reached puberty I really whacked it on and then suffered with 3 weeks pms water retention a month so never lost weight again!  My mother had me on a diet from the minute I was born and as soon as she could, she got me on an exercise routine.  I remember spending hours on a chair doing leg exercises (because I had fat legs apparently!) and was made to run up and down stairs.  Nothing shifted the weight which made my mother even worse!!  Everything I ate was analysed and I was made to feel a freak.

I did lose weight a couple of times (I now know why as I had to attract my husband and various jobs) and when I was slim I was gorgeous and attractive.  So suddenly I was made redundant and the weight started to pack on - but not for the reason you think which would be to do with overeating. 

My subconscious had decided that I was too attractive and that it was only a matter of time before I left my husband and ran off with somebody else and that I wasnt safe.  So it took me out of a male situation and I ended up with my own beauty salon!  I then spent 17 years trawling from therapist to therapist and spending a fortune to find out why I couldnt lose weight.  It was only when I met somebody who would diagnose using muscle testing that she told me THAT I DIDNT WANT TO LOSE WEIGHT!  Well you could have knocked me over with a feather as I would have denied this.  But it just shows that you dont know what your subconscious is doing to you - and we are 95% subconscious!  So then I had to start investigating why:

1. I had been sexually abused from the ages of 3 to 6 and didnt want to be a woman - hence the weight on when I reached puberty
2. I didnt feel safe when I was slim as I was attractive and got too much attention
3. I had had various rapes/date rapes and was worried this was going to happen again
4. I had died of starvation/thirst in various past lives and this was causing me to hang onto the water and weight in this life.  I felt I wouldnt survive if I lost the weight

There were lots of other reasons but by god it took some shifting!!  If your subconscious doesnt want you to do something it can take a long time believe me! But I can now shift this for you so dont suffer in silence anymore!

Does everybody have starvation mode?

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I hear this all the time from people - you have cut your calories down and you are now in starvation mode and you cant lose any weight.  Well now top doctors are saying that we should all be cutting down our calories as it is better for our body and helps resist disease.  Yes I did mess up my metabolism when I lived on 150 calories for 7 years but I did that because it was already messed up and I couldnt lose weight - especially after I gave up smoking which raises your metabolism by at least 200 calories a day.  I was also on stimulants and the weight was dropping off everybody else but not me!

So if this starvation mode exists how comes people like Kate moss and Posh Spice lose weight and stay so thin (and it is thin and unnatural for most people).  If starvation mode existed people wouldnt become annorexics would they?  Their body would stop at a weight that was healthy and they wouldnt lose any more weight.

I do believe there is a starvation mode but it is not caused by what the doctors say but from a variety of other things that I talk about in this blog all the time.  Some of these are:

1. Your subconscious does not want you to be slim for various reasons.  It is protecting you from sexual abuse, getting pregnant, too much attention from men, not wanting to step out of comfort zone, fear of failure - the list is endless!

2.  I also believe that it is to do with starving, being malnourished or dying of thirst in previous lives - and it could be more than one life.  Your body is frightened of this happening again so it holds onto the weight and the water so you dont die

I think these are the main reasons but there can be many others which I could identify if you had a session with me.  Dieting doesnt work for everybody and you need to find out what is the real cause.

The reason you cant lose weight is because you have a slow metabolism

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I am so fed up with people saying slim people never overeat, emotionally eat or sit and watch the television.  Most of the slim people (or ordinary or slightly overweight people) drink alcohol on a regular basis, eat pizza and go out to eat at least once a week - and buy bars of chocolate and cake - somebody must be buying them!  My friend cut out drinking for 4 nights a week and lost two stone over 3 months - I dont even drink!

One of the reasons that you cant lose weight is because your metabolism is slow.  You could be born with a slow metabolism (like me) or something could have happened to make it slow down (like a shock, childbirth or an allergy). It could be genetic, your body type or constitutional homeopathy type. It could be a life plan to affect your weight and it could even be a past life!  When I gave up smoking I never lost weight again - this is due to the fact that smoking boosts your metabolism by at least 200 calories a day so even though I was careful and didnt substitute the weight started to creep on.  The metabolism is partly controlled by the thyroid glad but I feel it comes more from the hypothalumus (the boss of the endocrine system!) and doctors dont even recognise this or have anything to boost it up!  If you have a slow metabolism you will never lose weight or keep it off.  Remember every 10 years your metabolism slows down even further!

When I tell people I lived on 150 calories for 7 years they say no wonder your metabolism is shot - but I did that because my metabolism was shot before!  So I know I made it worse but I was desperate!  People say eat more food and especially protein but this doesnt work if you have a serious weight problem.  People say eat more of a certain type of food but this doesnt work long term or permanently.  The best way to increase your metabolism is to find out what homeopathy and herbs are best for you as they will address it permantly for ever.  Another good technique to use is Emotional Freedom Technique (EFT) as you can tap on your metabolism every day and increase it slowly.

Why not book an appointment with me to find out why your metabolism might not be working properly.

Why do people always say they can cure your weight problem?

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In the past twenty years I have visited sooooooooooooo many therapists and done so many training courses to try and overcome my weight and thyroid issues.  All of them have said they can cure me and when I have mentioned seeing other people they have got a bit sniffy and put them down.  When their treatments didnt work they would then say it was all my fault and that I was overeating - which I wasnt - being overweight is nothing to do with food!

The answer is that nobody can cure you - only you!  I have just seen how a diet can change your thyroid - well it will help it but it is so much deeper than this!

1 Yes you need to know what foods to eat to help your thyroid - but it could also be that your pituitory, pineal and hypothalamus can be faultly as well.  You also need to know what to eat to help your metabolism

2. If your subconscious, karma, life plan, inner child or any other part of you doesnt want to lose weight for any reason YOU WILL NOT!!!  So you need to investigate all these parts including past lives.  Your subconscious is sooooooooooooo strong willed that it will cause organs to fail and they will not work again - whatever you do!

3. You will most probably need something like homeopathy/herbs to kick start your body as it has been dormant for so long

4. You will need to look at your emotions and beliefs.  We all have patterns, stuck emotions, blocks and judgements and all these will stop you losing weight

This is why my book WHY?WEIGHT doesnt just cover food - it includes everything including breathing!  You may need to see more than one person - or you could book an appointment with me!

My new weight loss book

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I haven't been blogging recently because I have been adding lots of new information to my weight loss book, WHY?WEIGHT, as I am getting it ready for publishing - how exciting!!

So I am going to start putting in extracts - I have read so many weight loss books but mine covers everything from breathing to exercise, to eating to crystals, past lives and karma to beliefs, patterns and blocks - and how to heal the lot and lose the weight and keep it off for good!!!

So the firs thing I am going to share is that in my book I have 30 pages of all the reasons you cant lose weight that have nothing to do with eating!!  So here are some of them:

1. you have chosen a fat body to pay off karma
2. you have chosen not to lose weight as a lesson to learn in this lifetime
3. you may have a disease like diabetes or an underactive thyroid which adds weight
4. you may have a water retention issue that your doctor doesnt recognise
5. you have friends that dont want you to lose weight and they can actually stop you
6. your subconscious or soul dont want you to lose weight
7. your medicaton may be making you fat
8. you may be deficient in vits and minerals
9. the vits and minerals that you take may add weight
10. you have intolerances that are making you fat
11. you have a hormonal problem
12. you have a genetic problem
13. you may have a fat virus - yes it is true!!!
14. your inner child may not want you to lose weight

and there are many many more - and I can help you heal and release these so you start to lose weight!

Why do people talk at you? The art of conversation has gone!

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I went to 12 schools and spent a great deal of time at coffee mornings, lunch parties and handing out drinks at cocktail parties!  My father was in the RAF and in those days it was very social!!  So I learnt the art of conversation and how to ask questions to move a conversation on.  But this art seems to have disappeared now!!

A friend of mine used to have what we called her 20 questions!  Where do you live, what do you do etc and then the idea is that they ask you back - but we noticed that people didnt.  Even when we were talking we could see that the person wasnt listening but wondering how they could get back into the conversation and talk over you! That is why programs like Loose Women are full of women that talk over each other and dont listen to the other people - because they like the sound of their own voices! Most television interviewers talk about themselves, dont ask open questions and then talk over the interviewee!  Then you have the competion - "I am tired today" the answer back is then "you are not as tired as me"!!  My husband went on a course at the Manoir and was so excited - as he was telling my cousins they didnt say what did you cook or did you have fun - they all went I prefer Gordon Ramsey etc - not one of them asked him a question about the day but turned the conversation back to themselves!

In my case I have sat and listened to this because I had low self esteem - I felt unworthy and was only too glad that these people were talking at me!  I thought I was boring and that nobody would be interested in what I had to say. I thoought that if I kept the conversation going with asking questions about them (because people like talking about themselves) that they would like me and want to see me again.  So for years I have sat and listened to subjects that I had no interest in!  When I mention this to other people and they notice the same as me but then unfortunately a conversation is never the same again!  The people I mention it too usually have low self esteem as well and dont talk about themselves.

So now I have a good self esteem and dont want to listen and I notice that my new spiritual friends dont do this - they ask questions on an equal basis and are keen to listen to the answers.  I do have problems with existing friends and now I have to say something otherwise I can feel it build up inside.

When you have low self esteem you put up with anything - I did the same with men.  Why dont people say what are you doing this weekend or what did you do - anymore?  Then constantly start telling you what they did!  A friend went to Brighton last year for a day and she talked about it for 40 minutes!!

Last year my body was awash with cortisol and I started to lose my hair and eyelashes.  Only about 2 people have asked me if it has stopped falling out - so when you are ill you certainly find out who your REAL friends are!

However, the worm has turned and is not putting up with it anymore!  and neither do you!  Get rid of the people who dont care or ask about you or your well being and get new friends.

I can't have created all of this surely?

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There is no such thing as coincidence.  Everything that happens has been contracted for learning before you come in - I know this is difficult to understand but it is true.  Last year I went to northern cyprus on my own for a holiday in the sun.  On the very last swim the step broke and the metal end guaged out a huge piece of my foot.  The hotel were a nightmare and I was on my own.  Surely I hadnt created this but I had.  When I had calmed down and got over the shock I realised that I felt so abandoned and this bought up my patterns and blocks.  I had felt abandoned most of my life by people and situations.  Couldn't my soul have organised this less painfully - yes I suppose it could of but I cried for 3 days as I was in shock and I needed to do that to release all these painful memories and I wasnt going to do it any other way.

In this life spiritual people are looking to pay off their karma for what they have done in past lives.  We have all stolen, murdered and hurt people.  So if you are having troubles now (which I certainly am!) it is because I have chosen a certain time frame to feel how I made those people feel.  So I have built up patterns of non forgiveness and guilt which are difficult to heal - but I am getting there.

So if somebody is nasty to you it will be payback for you being nasty to somebody.  If someone gossips it is because you have gossiped (gossip is soooooooooooooo bad please stop doing it now). If you loose money it is because you have taken money from somebody else.  That is why some people are burgled in a street and others arent.

So please look at every situation and look for the learning and the lesson.  Ask your angels and guides to come and help heal it.  Dont blame other people for what has happened take responsibility even if you dont like it.  This week Amanda Holden has sacked her media person because of a picture of her daughter - but she should have taken responsibility and said she was wrong.

Bringing in what you have asked for

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Following on from my blog yesterday I want to talk about why you havent got the life you have asked for.  Spiritual growth is an ongoing process but you have to believe that everything is happening is perfect time and this will be reflected in your astrology chart.  I know it is frustrating, especially is you have ill health or no money - but you must keep remembering that you have chosen this and are working towards your spiritual goal.

I know it is difficult to keep positive but using meditation, prayer, techniques like EFT and affirmations you need to keep going.  If you get knocked off centre you need to go back as quickly as possible because if you are putting out negativity to the universe that is what you will get back.  Take responsbility for what you did in past lives and this life.  Every person, situation, illness, marriage etc is designed to learn and move forward into the person we should be.  It is difficult not to judge others but dont and dont gossip either as this is a very low vibration.  If somebody upsets you send them love and light and then release the memories - stop going on about things as this means you are in victim mode!!

Try to look at every situation and learn the lesson and heal it.  Are you easily irritated? Do you get angry quickly?  Do you hate yourself deep down or think you are unworthy?  All these emotions need to be cleansed before you can more forward - I know you have to be a detective but wouldnt life be boring if everything went smoothly!!

Remember you are were you are supposed to be now and you are moving towards the life of your dreams and it wont be long - the universe is asking for you to have patience!

Why don't you have the life you have asked for?

Are you following all the rules for the Secret, Cosmic Ordering and the laws of attraction and manifestation and nothing is happening? Everything you try doesnt bring you what you want?  You meditate, you pray, you use EFT or hypnosis and you still havent moved forward?  WHY?

I have mentioned before that we choose our own lives and we choose what happens when.  This is all written and contracted before we come in and although we have free will, it mostly happens as it is written.  This plan if full of experiences - some good, some bad - that we have to go through before we have the life of our desires.

Just because nothing appears to be happening it doesnt mean that is isnt.  What you are doing is sowing the seeds, removing the blocks and patterns and paying off the karma for your past lives.  I know this is frustrating but you agreed to it!!!

If you are down or frustrated use a technique like EFT to bring you back to positive.  Keep meditating, keep putting out what you want, keep looking at the areas of your life that need improving, keep looking at your traits that need changing - and you will get there!!

I have looked at thousands of lives and still I am being told to look at more.  The biggest thing is to forgive ourselves for what we have done in past lives and this life (real or imagined) and remove the guilt - this is not easy and can take a couple of years so keep at it!

Why not sit down with a friend and say "I cant have the life of my dreams because....." and sees what comes up - and the bonus is that this is healing.  Write down your thoughts as this releases them from you as well.  Write down all the problems and then in the next column right the truth.

For eample:  I cant earn money/The truth is the you can earn money and it is easy

Keep going this year is going to be good for all of us and the Chinese New Year has just started so use this to think that the new year has just happened!

Why do patterns and blocks come back?

I have been clearing my blocks and patterns for nearly 20 years ago now and cant believe that they still keep coming back.  So why do they?:

1.  Blocks and patterns are like a onion.  Everytime you clear it you are actually only clearing one layer - which is why it takes so long!

2. The block is not being cleared from your bodies like your etheric, spiritual, causual, mental, emotional etc.

3. They are not being cleared from past lives, this life, parallel lives or future lives so it is recreated

4. You are not in touch with the emotions that are causing the patterns/blocks and therefore it cant be healed for ever.

5. If you released all your patterns and blocks at once you could be very ill and therefore your subconscious wont let it happen as its job is to keep you safe.

6. You have not cleared all the karma associated with the blocks/patterns and therefore they are still there.

7. You have not cleared all the past lives associated with the problems

8. Your inner child still wants to hang onto them to meet their needs

9. Parts of you that are hanging onto the blocks for reasons of safety and survival will not let them go

So when a clearing happens, it is essential to make sure that your life coach or healer covers all these areas + asks for them to be released from other dimensation, all layers, and from the aura.

How sexual abuse can cause your thyroid to fail so you gain weight

I was 12lb when I was born!  For the next few years I had various illnesses but didnt lose weight.  When I got to puberty the weight really went mad and nothing I did made any difference - my mother was a fanatic and made my life a misery!  The more I tried the bigger I got.  When I was older I was subject to a few date rapes and one particularly nasty one when I was trying to get home because my father was dying and accepted a lift from a friend of a friend who wouldnt let me off his bus until I had had sex with him - my view of men was at rock bottom.  So when I managed to loose a bit of weight I was travelling the world working and having to stay in hotels.  This caused me further problems as I would have men knocking on my door, trying to pick me up in hotel corridors or airports and couldnt even go down for dinner because of the pickups so had to eat in my room.  I worked in Mexico for 6 weeks and my friend and I kept score and one day I had 30 hits!!  So by now I was really fed up with men and this is when the weight started to go back on as I didnt want all this attention from men.

When I did reiki 18 years ago (I had managed to lose weight through starving, slimming and water pills, laxatives, homeopathy and 3 hours of exercise a day!), I suddenly swelled up with water.  A lot of this was to do with past lives that I talk about in my blog, but I discovered I had been sexually abused from 3 to 6 and then again at 8.  What I discovered was that I had added the weight as protection against men (therefore abuse) as when I was slim I was very attractive and had men slobbering over me!  Because my subconscious knows that I would starve until the weight came off (I lived on 150 calories for 7 years!) it decided to lower my already dodgy thyroid and pack water on which I couldnt lose what ever I did.  I consulted loads of therapies and when I put on more weight (I got thrown out of slimming world and weight watchers for putting on weight!) they blamed me and overeating - believe me I wasnt!  I spent over £250,000 as sexual abuse is very difficult to heal as the inner child and the soul are broken and need a lot of work and patience.  If your subconscious doesnt feel safe it will do EVERYTHING IT CAN TO KEEP YOU SAFE and weight it thinks is one of the best ways.  Unfortunately we know it isnt so the first thing we have to do is retrain the subconscious.

I am still not totally there but I want to be an attractive woman but am still not bothered about that men!!  I talk about all the therapies that I feel work for weight loss and they are listed in my book WHY?WEIGHT.  Why not contact me on info@unleashyourfullpotential.co.uk for more information and I can help you on your path with weight.

Past lives that can affect your weight today

I have talked about having starved in past lives and how that affects you now giving you the starvation gene.  But there are many other past lives that can cause you to have a weight problem:

1. You were over fed as being large was seen as being very wealthy in Africa and in the South Pacific
2. You had jobs that required you to be overweight - fat lady in the circus or a sumo wrestler
3. You took food and money from people so you are being paid back with a weight problem
4. You poked fun at people who were overweight or disabled
5. You carry the genes from a race where they have a weight problem - South pacific, New Zealand
6. You were ill in a past life that caused a weight problem that you have brought into this life to be healed (thyroid, poisoning, water retention etc.)
7. You were very attractive, raped or abused and this will cause you to add weight in this life so you dont get the attention of the opposite sex

One of the main past lives that are fuelling the obesity crisis is the Holocaust.  Because millions of people starved to death they have bought this gene into this life so that the Holocaust memories and trauma can be healed once and for all - and this is good for the planet and everybody on it.  It will help lift Mother Earth higher on its spiritual path.

So why not contact me on info@unleashyourfullpotential.co.uk to find out what past lives are causing your weight problems now!

Ancestral curses and how they can affect your weight in this life

Everybody on my mothers side has a weight problem.  It doesnt matter how much exercise or dieting we do we all end up the same size - if you see us in a crowd there is no mistaking us!!!  Weight problems can be genetic, but this can also be caused by ancestral curses.  Many generations ago your family could have done something and have been cursed and this curse has manifested as a serious weight problem.  I had one client whose ancestral curse manifested as miscarriages which was heartbreaking.

Your family could have stolen money, stolen land, been a land owner and treated people badly. Your family could have been involved in the slave trade in many countries or even with building the pyramids.  It doesnt have to be about food but being overweight is a form of punishing and suffering so this works nicely - and you cant do anything about it.  I managed to lose 5 stone but woke up one morning 6 stone heavier and believe me it wasnt to do with food but the fact that I was "cursed" to be fat!

As part of my business I specialise in removing ancestral curses so if you feel this may be your problem please contact me on info@unleashyourpotential.co.uk and watch the weight drop off, your ancestors healed and future generations healed - wouldnt you like to be able to heal their weight problem before they have one!!

Just a word of warning about curses - do not (even in fun or tempter) say the words "I curse you" or equivalent as the universe will activate the curse - and then the curse comes back on you 100 fold

Past life starvation will affect you now

If you have starved in any of your past lives you most probably will have what they call the "starvation gene".  You always hear that if you starve yourself your body will go into "starvation mode" and you will stop losing weight but this isnt the same for everybody.  All the size two models or film stars can starve and lose weight and then keep it off - I am sure you can name many!!!  But somebody like myself who ate 150 calories a day for 7 years was very roobust and covered!!  Also if everybody had the starvation mode there would be no anorexics as they would get to a certain level and then stop losing weight.  Also if you have the starvation gene, exercise doesnt help you to lose weight either - I speak from experience on this one!

So this gene could be from a past live where you were malnourished, died of starvation, or had very little food, and will cause you to hold onto weight in this lifetime. As there are many people being reincarnated from the prisoner of war camps, the starvation gene is very common, and that is one of the main reasons for the obesity crisis.

Dont worry though because I can remove the starvation gene and help to increase your metabolism so contact me on info@unleashyourfullpotential.co.uk to start your weight loss for life!

Does your child need help with learning and exams?

In my book, Unleash your full potential, I talk about how you can help your children increase their learning and how to pass exams easily and simply.  Do your children do this or would you like my help?!!

Does your child lack the following:

do they want to study or do their homework?
are they easily distracted from their studies?
do you feel they have untapped intelligence?
do they freeze at exams and can't recall any information?
do they pick things up easily, remember them and then recall them instantly?

No - well they are not alone!  That is why I have put together an on-going program to help turn your children into the clever, happy and destressed children they should be.  I offer advice using Bach flower remedies, and I would certainly recommend Paul McKenna's book/cd on "I can make you smart" and "exam help".  I teach various energy techniques like EFT, TAT and Havening to remove all the baggage and blocks - this is especially helpful in the case of bullying and unhelpful remarks from teachers!  And in the background I am looking at all the patterns, blocks, judgements and negative self beliefs and changing them for the positive.

I have to say that if I had children I would contact me now for a session!!  Remember it will be an ongoing learning but I will give you both the tools so that you can help in between sessions.  Please contact me on info@unleashyourfullpotential.co.uk