Tuesday, 23 August 2016

Why lack of love as a child can make you fat as an adult

Wednesday, 29 April 2015

What has lack of love as a child got to do with your weight problem now?

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So what does lack of love as a child (or now) have to to with your weight problem?  A lot actually!  If you were not shown enough love as a child, or a sibling was favoured, this can set up a pattern of there is not enough and I am not worthy of what there is.  So this will cause your body to hang onto weight as it believes there is scarcity and lack, especially if you are having a tough time with your job and money.  Because on the television there is so much about scarcity and not enough money to go around we are programmed with lack which then becomes our reality.  So it is best not to watch the news or political programs!

Your inner child is crying out for love and nuturing so the first thing you need to do is talk to her and tell her that you love her, that there is plenty of love to go round and that you will always love her.  Keep telling her this every day.  I carry a picture of me as a young girl and I talk to her every day telling her how special she is, how she is loved and how I will always look after her and we are safe.

If you dont love yourself then this can become a weight problem and you wont be able to lose it whatever you do.  You are adding the extra weight of protection and you may be giving yourself this love through food - this is one of the main reasons why people overeat to give them comfort and love.

Because of your childhood you may be projecting out to the world that you are a terrible person and dont deserve to be loved so you will attract people and partners that treat you badly and dont show affection or love.  My husband has never once said he loved me even in the early days when he was mad about me - I was attracting what I thought I deserved.  My mother only gave me love when other people where around or when she wanted something  So now I think that love always comes with conditions!

If you have been sexually, emotionally or physicially abused as a child this will lead to patterns of lack of love and scarcity.  You will attract people who want to abuse you and you may put on weight to repel them.  It becomes a vicious circle.

Use a technique like EFT  start clearing away these patterns and every day fill yourself with love and affirm that you are worthy and deserve love from yourself and from everybody.  Look at areas where you may be withholding love from other people and ask for this to be healed.

Thursday, 18 August 2016

How can Karma possibly make you fat!

January 2015

The first part of how karma can affect your weight

How does Karma affect your weight?
I have been on a diet since I was born - I was 12 lb even then which for 1955 was very heavy!  What ever happened the weight never came off.  My mother was obsessed and had me on a diet and exercise plan at the age of 3!

I even spent 7 years on 150 calories a day, water tablets and slimming pills - and I wont tell you what else I did, to try and lose weight.  Most people would have died through malnutrition but I was still slowly putting on weight!

So why I started on my spiritual journey it absolutely made sense that I was paying back negative karma as being overweight made me very  unhappy.  I had chosen to be overweight as I felt that I needed to suffer and punish myself for what I had done (or perceived I had done) in past lives. I was also carrying "the heavy burdens of karma".  This explained why everything I did didnt work.  So I had to work very hard at forgiving myself and releasing the need to suffer and punish.  I can help you do this as I have so much experience now.

There will more on this subject later this week on how dying of starvation or thirst in past lives affects your weight more.  Also how other past lives affect your weight now

How can Karma possibly make you fat!

January 2015

The first part of how karma can affect your weight

How does Karma affect your weight?
I have been on a diet since I was born - I was 12 lb even then which for 1955 was very heavy!  What ever happened the weight never came off.  My mother was obsessed and had me on a diet and exercise plan at the age of 3!

I even spent 7 years on 150 calories a day, water tablets and slimming pills - and I wont tell you what else I did, to try and lose weight.  Most people would have died through malnutrition but I was still slowly putting on weight!

So why I started on my spiritual journey it absolutely made sense that I was paying back negative karma as being overweight made me very  unhappy.  I had chosen to be overweight as I felt that I needed to suffer and punish myself for what I had done (or perceived I had done) in past lives. I was also carrying "the heavy burdens of karma".  This explained why everything I did didnt work.  So I had to work very hard at forgiving myself and releasing the need to suffer and punish.  I can help you do this as I have so much experience now.

There will more on this subject later this week on how dying of starvation or thirst in past lives affects your weight more.  Also how other past lives affect your weight now

How can Karma possibly make you fat!

January 2015

The first part of how karma can affect your weight

How does Karma affect your weight?
I have been on a diet since I was born - I was 12 lb even then which for 1955 was very heavy!  What ever happened the weight never came off.  My mother was obsessed and had me on a diet and exercise plan at the age of 3!

I even spent 7 years on 150 calories a day, water tablets and slimming pills - and I wont tell you what else I did, to try and lose weight.  Most people would have died through malnutrition but I was still slowly putting on weight!

So why I started on my spiritual journey it absolutely made sense that I was paying back negative karma as being overweight made me very  unhappy.  I had chosen to be overweight as I felt that I needed to suffer and punish myself for what I had done (or perceived I had done) in past lives. I was also carrying "the heavy burdens of karma".  This explained why everything I did didnt work.  So I had to work very hard at forgiving myself and releasing the need to suffer and punish.  I can help you do this as I have so much experience now.

There will more on this subject later this week on how dying of starvation or thirst in past lives affects your weight more.  Also how other past lives affect your weight now

How can Karma possibly make you fat!

January 2015

The first part of how karma can affect your weight

How does Karma affect your weight?
I have been on a diet since I was born - I was 12 lb even then which for 1955 was very heavy!  What ever happened the weight never came off.  My mother was obsessed and had me on a diet and exercise plan at the age of 3!

I even spent 7 years on 150 calories a day, water tablets and slimming pills - and I wont tell you what else I did, to try and lose weight.  Most people would have died through malnutrition but I was still slowly putting on weight!

So why I started on my spiritual journey it absolutely made sense that I was paying back negative karma as being overweight made me very  unhappy.  I had chosen to be overweight as I felt that I needed to suffer and punish myself for what I had done (or perceived I had done) in past lives. I was also carrying "the heavy burdens of karma".  This explained why everything I did didnt work.  So I had to work very hard at forgiving myself and releasing the need to suffer and punish.  I can help you do this as I have so much experience now.

There will more on this subject later this week on how dying of starvation or thirst in past lives affects your weight more.  Also how other past lives affect your weight now

Tuesday, 1 September 2015

How to get rid of Ticks and Fleas

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How to get rid of Fleas and Ticks

 I am very embarrassed to tell you that I have just had an infestation of fleas and they have been a nightmare to get rid of – much worse than I would have ever imagined!  I am told that the problem is particularly bad at the moment due to the weather being muggy and dampish.  So I have done a lot of research on the internet and want to pass this information onto you – because it is not necessarily caused by what you think it would be! But knowing me by now you would have suspected as much wouldn’t you!

 What you have to look at is why it is happening to you and what you have done to attract it – this must be your first port of call otherwise the infestation won’t go.  I have had dogs for over 30 years and this has never happened before so it must be telling me something now. Then the fleas started to attack and bite me and I knew they were attacking me and I had to clear the reason why. So if you have an infestation it would be best to book an appointment with me to clear this for you as I am now an expert!  And then the clear up will be easy and not stressful.

 My story

 Firstly I didn’t recognise that my dogs had fleas because I have never had them before.  We even took Monty to the vets to have his anal glands suppressed because we thought it was that – poor thing!  Then suddenly I saw a black speck on Monty and it ran and then I realised what it was.  Our first port of call was a pet shop and we bought Frontline and a spray – neither worked and the problem got worse.  We then went to the vet and got Advocate and a toxic spray.  Advocate seems to kill the fleas on them and is supposed to kill anything else within 4 hours but we didn’t find this happened for us.  We found eggs and newly hatched fleas the next day!

I then went onto the internet and looked at forums and started to put everything into practice – this advice is given later on stating whether it worked for us or not.  I kept spraying and hoovering and it was just the same – and I couldn’t clean my settee so I seemed to be infected – even my leggings had fleas!!

Then I realised that I was being shown something as fleas are considered to be entities and I had attracted them for a reason.  So I started using my clearing techniques that I use for behaviour asking why and healing the reasons.  Fleas are attracted to negative energy and I also realised that were attacking me.  Also the constant cleaning, hoovering and washing was really getting on my nerves and I was starting to cry and feel exhausted.  Also I felt that I was crawling with stuff all the time and couldn’t stop itching!!  So using my techniques I cleared all the reasons and thanked my dogs for allowing them to be used to show me what to do.

 The first thing I recommend is that you clear the energy in your house and ask for positive energy to come in.  The best way to do this is to use a Sage wand as this eliminates nasty energy.  Go into each room and ask that the energy is transformed to positive energy and keep doing this until the fleas have gone.

 Go onto the internet if you are interested and research in animal terms what a Tick and a Flea represent, although I do give some interesting websites for information below.

 Fleas – fleas can represent an unwanted dark entity that is attracted to negative energy so perhaps you need to follow the instructions given previously to clear your house.  It can also represent that you are not looking after youself or your environment properly. There are some more interesting definitions on this website http://www.wildspeak.com/animalenergies/flea.html.  However, none of these rang true to me so I tuned in and found that as I run programs of punishment and suffering this was an ideal opportunity for me to beat myself up as I felt guilty that my dogs were suffering and I couldn’t get rid of it.

 

Ticks – ticks can represent that somebody is sucking the life out of you. So if your dog has ticks it could be a time to look at the people in your life and how they are treating you.  For more information this is a very good website http://www.auntyflo.com/magic/tick.

 

How to get rid of Ticks and Fleas

 

Ticks – Advocate is the spot on treatment that you use monthly if you want to do the vet route. I use a Tick homeopathic remedy which I get from Ainsworths pharmacy.  To begin with I give it to my dogs once a day for a week, then every other day for a week and then weekly.  In the summer months I do up the dose to 2 a week.  Since I have been doing this they both have been tick free.

 

There are lots of suggestions for removing Ticks but the best way is a little device that has a slot in it that you get from pet shops.  You slide the slot over the Tick’s head and then wind it round and the Tick is pulled out completely.  Other methods could leave the legs to be left in and cause a problem.  Remember to check yourself as well and you can use the same device if you have picked one up.  It is important to do this as a Tick can then cause Lyme’s disease which is very serious in humans.

 

Fleas - Getting rid of the fleas is hard work as the flea cycle is a minimum of three weeks.  So you need to hoover, hoover and then hoover again!  You need to change your hoover bag regularly as well.  Hoover the settees, beds and anything else that could hide fleas and their eggs.  I hoovered my settees twice a day as they seemed to be breeding there and then sticking in the buttons in the leather settees and then crawled into my leggings and kaftan!  I hoovered and washed my curtains – especially as my dogs sleep behind them!  Move everything as the eggs can jump up quite high and can then drop on your dogs.  Make sure you hoover your car and wash any bedding you have in the their as well.

 

Wash everything and keep washing.  Wash pet beds daily, your pjs, dressing gown, ugg boots, slippers, ordinary bedding or anything else you can think off. Wash your clothes daily as I found some fleas in leggings that I wore for two days and they were in my kaftan that I wore nightly. Wash the floors – I put a little bit of bleach in the water which is also supposed to kill fleas.  I put a sheet over my settees so I wasn’t sitting in anything that was hatching! Wash your skirting boards and even the bottom of your shoes.  Wash bath mats and rugs. Wash toys – wash everything you can lay your hands on and keep washing until it has gone.  You can buy an ultra violet device to kill the fleas on your bed.

 

Wash your pet as often as you can and then use a flea comb to go through the hair.  I used this flea comb at least four times a day because it also takes out the eggs.  You can get an electric one if you want to kill the fleas with an electric shock!! You can’t wash your pet for about 72 hours after their treatment (check the instructions for what you are using).  I didn’t find flea shampoos to be very effective and I used Head and Shoulders but use what your vet recommends.  Again, I suggest you buy from the vet and not pet shops as I found their products to be ineffective.

 

 

 

Toxic Route

 

I bought many products from pet shops but they didn’t work so if you are going to go down this route you need the following:

 

1.    Advocate: which is the spot on treatment and this needs to be applied once a month.  It kills the fleas that are already on the pet and then will kill the fleas after about 4 hours after they jump on.  The other good thing is that they make the fleas sterile so they can lay eggs

 

2.    Flea pill: this I feel is better because it is not toxic and taken orally.  I found this worked the best of all the products I tried

 

3.    The only spray we found that worked was called RIP Fleas and I had to buy it from the vets.  It is toxic so spray with the windows open and don’t let your pet near the area until you have hoovered several hours later.  Try and wear a mask.

 

Spray it everywhere including skirting boards, beds, floors, carpets, settees and anywhere else a flea or an egg may land and then drop on your pet.  WARNING: the spray makes the wood/tile floors very slippery and it can be dangerous so please be careful and warn visitors.

 

Non-toxic Route

 

I tried many homeopathy remedies that we mentioned on forums but none worked for my dogs – or they made it slightly better but didn’t get rid of them.  So I contacted Ainsworths and bought the remedy called Flea which I would highly recommend.  You give your pet the remedy twice daily for a week and then daily for a week until you are down to one a week. It took a couple of weeks to get into the system so you will need some other method as a back up to begin with.  I test my dogs to see how many they need a week – this is a good reason to attend one of my courses on how to dowse or muscle test for answers!!

 

Homeopathy: Flea remedy (as stated above)

 

Cider vinegar in the water: this didn’t help for me but it may help for you

 

Head and shoulders shampoo: this is recommended and I felt it did help and that it was more effective than flea shampoo

 

Salt in the carpet: this is supposed to dehydrate eggs so I would recommend that you do this daily and then hoover up 24 hours later

 

Avon Skin So Soft: I had high hopes of this product because I have used it before myself to protect against mozzie bites but it wasn’t that effective but good to give it a go!

 

Crystal: It is a good idea to put a crystal in the water that is programmed to get rid of fleas.  If you feel your dog may swallow the crystal then put the water you are going to use in their bowl in a jug and immerse the crystal in it for a few hours.  You could also attach a crystal to your pet’s collar.  A quartz or citrine crystal is the best but if you want to use an existing crystal go to my chapter on crystals and learn how to program it for what you want.

 
Diaguard® Food Grade Diatomaceous Earth Natural Protector 2kg: this is a clay type of substance that appears to kill anything including parasites.  So you rub this into your dogs and this will kill eggs and fleas.  Brush it into your carpet, your bed and your settees and everywhere else you need to clean.  Leave it and then hoover it up.  You can give this to your pet in it’s food and it will kill parasites – and it is a good idea if you take it as you most probably have parasites if you are close to your animal and they lick you!  THIS IS WHAT I REALLY RECOMMEND TO USE

Wednesday, 8 July 2015

Prepare your pet for the baby's arrival

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I am so fed up with dogs (and cats) being dumped at rescues because the owner is having a baby!  Firstly a pet is not a throw away item and secondly pets and children can live happily side by side - and it is good for the children to look after something!

But you need to prepare your dog/cat for a new arrival because they will not understand the crying, the smell!, the nappys everywhere and the fact that the toys on the floor are not now theirs!

So at least 3 to 4 months before the baby is due you need to start to do the following:

1. buy a cd or record the noise of crying and play it during the day so the animal gets used to it
2. start laying down nappys, wipes, creams, changing mats on the floor so the pet gets used to leaving them alone
3. buy a doll that cries and carry it around and show it to the pet
4. Start putting the child gates up and training your pet on how to stay behind them or go through them
5. Take them and show them the bedroom, cot, mobiles etc so there is nothing new or unfamiliar when the baby arrives

So when the baby comes home you need to introduce your pet and not keep saying "Get away".  Obviously you never leave the pet and the child alone (the pet should be used to this by now).  But you must ensure that when the baby is asleep that you give your pet your full attention - remember your pet was your baby before the baby!  They will feel jealous and put out and will  most probably think they have done something wrong.  So please watch out for a change in behaviour.  My book has several stories in where dogs become very upset and even start to self harm because they have lost their owners affection and feel they have done something wrong.

So then you have to train your baby to treat your dog with respect.  No pulling, tugging or sticking pencils up their nose!  Your pet must have a safe place to retreat to (which is why a crate is a good idea) so they can have some peace and quiet.  A dog will warn a child with a little growl (this is how they keep their puppies under control) so it is your responsbility to remove the child and let the dog know that it is ok.  Dont keep shouting at the dog as you will make it nervous and you will lose trust.  Why not contact me for a session and we can sort out any problems?