Do you use your weight as protection against something?

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I was 12 lb when I was born and I have struggled with  my weight all my life.  I have even lived on 150 calories for 7 years and did three hours of exercise a day (which I am now paying for with dodgy hips!).  I started to investigate why I couldn't lose weight more deeply and went to visit a therapist who did muscle testing - this means that you ask your body yes or no questions and your body responds as it absolutely knows what it wants. So she asked my body if it wanted to lose weight and it said NO!  I was absolutely gobsmacked - but "I do" I said - but your body/subconscious etc doesn't want to!  So after I recovered from the shock, I realised that I had been using my weight as protection against something because every time I tuned into me being slim and attractive I felt the most tremendous fear and felt sick.

Being overweight means that you are not attractive to the majority of men (I can tell you that!) but that can be an advantage if you don't want the attention or have been abused.  This is what had happened to me.  When I was three I was sexually abused by my babysitters son for three years and had only got out of it by being ill and then my father was posted somewhere else so we moved.  When I was slim for a few years I was very attractive and attracted a lot of attention from men and as I travelled around the world working it became a real problem as you couldn't even walk along a corridor without somebody trying to hit on you. As you can see by the picture that I was pretty stunning - how I loved my hair like that!  So all the fear of the abuse came back and I started to put on weight.  As my body knew I would starve until it came off, it flooded me with excess water which I couldn't do anything about. 

With my clients, I find that this is the no. 1 reason for being overweight and if they lose it they will put it back on immediately.  Abuse of any kind does take a lot of healing but it can be done and self esteem, confidence and respect can be restored.  You may get the attention but it totally goes over your head because the patterns, blocks, trauma and fears have been cleared so your body/subconscious does not register this as a problem any more.

 

There is always a payback for everything - it is caused secondary gain.  You all know of the woman who looks after their mother and moans all the time but when you say you need to back off they don't.  This is because they get attention from other people which they wouldn't get if they stopped doing it. Other reasons that you would use your weight as protection:

 

1. traumas in past lives - you may not believe in past lives but any type of trauma in your ancestors may cause this fear within you

2. low self esteem/worth so your weight stops you from being promoted, getting a new job, going on holiday or many other reasons

3. you don't want to be seen so you make yourself big - I know this sounds the wrong way around but actually people don't pay any attention to overweight people - unless it is to be rude!

4. self hate - you hate yourself for eating and feel disgust so you eat more.  If you loved yourself this wouldn't happen

5. You are carrying heavy burdens/weighted down by your life experience

5. there are so many more reasons that are explained in my book, Unlock your Maximum Weight Loss Potential

 

But the good news is that all of these issues can be healed and you can lose weight and be happy. Buy my book and watch the weight drop off - why not book an appointment with me so we can explore the real reasons of your weight problem

 

How does karma affect your success?

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So how does karma affect your success I hear you ask - and what utter nonense! So any of you, like me, who are doing well and then suddenly everything falls about our ears will understand that something else is affecting what we do!

When we come into a live we have a contract with our Soul to experience many situations and one of those is to clear past karma.  This could be our karma, ancestral, religious, spiritual, soul group, from the country we live in - and anything else we have agreed to - which reminds me to say that we usually agree to do too much (against the wishes of our guides and angels) so next time remember to chose wisely - I certainly am!

There are lots of explanations about karma but I believe it is ourselves paying back for things that we have done in the past that havent aligned with our soul purpose - like stealing, murder, witch hunting, wars, experimentation, treating people badly, slavery - the list is absolutely endless.  And yes we have done all of these things in these lives but we know that we are never going to do them again and we need to clear what is programmed into our DNA etc so we can clear bad luck, sabotage etc and start manifesting the life of our dreams.  This can set up patterns of not deserving and not being worthy and that is another reason we sabotage our success because deep down we belief we are not good enough and therefore cant be successful.

When I first started on my spiritual journey I was told in a past life session that I had been responsible for putting Jesus Christ on the cross - you can imagine how that made me feel and I sunk into a deep depression and blamed myself for the misfortunes of the world - and for then on everything went wrong and I lost lots of money. This past life regression was handled very badly and I should have been made to see that I had been chosen to do this as an important role for the growth of the planet and that it was a great honour - it took me a long time to turn this around believe me.

There should be no blame or judgement attached to any karma or past life - just the knowledge that this needs clearing from every cell in your body and replaced with love and healing.  To do this you can use techniques like EFT, ask for help with your angels or book a session with me!  You will find that your life will begin to change for the better and your health, relationships and money situations will improve! There is a lot more information about how to do this in my wonderful book Unlock your Maximum Potential - it is well worth the money and is available on Amazon now!